Changing laws, expanding opportunities and transforming
social norms

Tackling a complex issue like child marriage takes a multi-pronged approach. Nesime promotes social norms change among her country’s Roma community, and across the Eastern Europe and Central Asia region.

“Traditional cultural norms around virginity have harmful consequences for girls, and we must work with communities to dismantle these norms and the stigma that comes with them, and to promote a culture that attaches more value to girls’ happiness and well-being than to outdated notions of family ‘honour,’” she says.

At the same time, she advocates for legislative and institutional change, mobilizing a range of partners, including the Women Parliamentarians’ Club; civil society organizations including the National Democratic Institute; and UN agencies including UNFPA and UNICEF.

Years of effort have borne fruit: in December 2018, a new law made marriage under age 18 a crime in North Macedonia. In August 2019, the Law on Primary Education was amended to require data to be collected on the reasons why pupils drop out of school – and if an extramarital union is determined to be the reason, the school is obliged to inform the national and local authorities.

Meanwhile, North Macedonia’s government, which at the Nairobi Summit on ICPD25 pledged to end child marriage by 2030, has committed to creating a child marriage database, tracking individual cases, and providing services that ensure girls’ rights and well-being.

“We still have many things to do,” says Nesime. She and her allies are now pushing to similarly amend the Law on Secondary Education.

I get fired up to act when I see social workers or teachers treating girls as less important individuals, with no potential for achieving anything other than being housewives and mothers.
— NESIME SALIOSKA
© UNFPA North Macedonia/Tomislav Georgiev

7.5%

of women and girls are married before age 18 in North Macedonia

UNFPA engages extensively with government and civil society partners

to address gender-based violence and harmful practices in North Macedonia

“We stopped a life from being stolen”

© UNFPA North Macedonia/Tomislav Georgiev

Meanwhile, attitudes in Roma communities are beginning to change. More cases against adult men who marry girls are being filed with the police, and more parents are going to court to prevent their minor daughters from being married.

Nesime recalls one case whose outcome heartens her. Fourteen-year-old Isabela, pregnant by an adult man, was on the brink of being married to him. But her grandmother, Nanny Litka, who had raised her, refused to let her go.

“She never gave up on protecting Isabela,” says Nesime. With her support, Nanny Litka waged a three-year legal battle to have the man arrested and convicted of having sexual intercourse with a minor. He was sentenced to a four-year prison term.

“Isabela’s story shows the importance of an intergenerational commitment to fight against child marriages,” says Nesime.

“There is an intergenerational cycle of discrimination against girls that is perpetuated in part by women themselves,” she explains. “If a mother has had a hard life and married early, her daughter should not have to do the same because ‘that’s the way things go.’ If a mother-in-law was treated poorly as a bride, she should not repeat this behaviour with her son’s wife because ‘that’s how it has to be.’

“Instead, women should use their own experiences as an example to fight harmful practices and support girls’ education and independence.”

Women in my community are ‘homeless’ all their lives: their family house does not belong to them… and anyway, she is expected to join another house, where she will be a stranger.
— NESIME SALIOSKA

Shira Miguel

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